It's summer time and that means vacation time! Here's a thought: plan a quick getaway for just the two of you. Yes, that means ditch the kiddos and go. I know there's a guilt factor that weighs heavy for some, but as they say: "If momma (or daddy) ain't happy, ain't nobody happy."
As a basic rule in relationships, you must prioritize your relationship with your partner and in doing so you, your spouse, and the kids will benefit and thrive. Most often parents get caught up in their children's activities, needs, and playing the role of mom and dad in general and slowly neglect their role as wife or husband. You are your children's main model of what a healthy relationship looks like, so teach them well and show them how important it is to maintain a close connection.
Do it for the kids. Plan a mini-vacation and let the kids hang out with grandma and grandpa for a few days. After all, wouldn't it be nice to have a quiet meal, maybe a glass of wine and be able to return to a peaceful hotel/home and not wake up to a little munchkin at your bedside asking for breakfast at 6:30 in the morning. And I'm sure your spouse would appreciate your full attention and actual adult conversation as well as some much needed non planned or penciled-in intimacy.
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